{"id":11866,"date":"2015-06-01T19:58:40","date_gmt":"2015-06-01T17:58:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/formax.qc.ca\/besoin-de-cicatrices\/"},"modified":"2015-06-01T19:58:40","modified_gmt":"2015-06-01T17:58:40","slug":"besoin-de-cicatrices","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/formax.qc.ca\/en\/besoin-de-cicatrices\/","title":{"rendered":"Besoin de cicatrices"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lorsque j\u2019\u00e9tais enfant, il m\u2019est arriv\u00e9 plus d\u2019une fois de m\u2019\u00e9corcher le genou en tombant dans la cour de mon ami. Je me souviens particuli\u00e8rement d\u2019une fois o\u00f9 la blessure \u00e9tait vraiment profonde et saignait beaucoup. J\u2019\u00e9tais all\u00e9 voir ma m\u00e8re en pleurant. Qu\u2019a-t-elle fait? Sans aucune panique, elle a rinc\u00e9 la plaie, l\u2019a badigeonn\u00e9e avec du mercurochrome, mis un diachylon dessus et elle m\u2019a dit le traditionnel \u00ab\u00a0becquer bobo!\u00a0\u00bb. Et je suis retourn\u00e9 jouer dehors. J\u2019en porte encore la cicatrice.<\/p>\n

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Les prudes \u00e0 l\u2019extr\u00eame penseront s\u00fbrement que j\u2019exag\u00e8re, mais je suis persuad\u00e9 que chacun de nous a besoin de cicatrices physiques et \u00e9motionnelles pour prendre de la maturit\u00e9 et devenir un \u00eatre humain \u00e9quilibr\u00e9. C\u2019est en se blessant, dans tous les sens du terme, que l\u2019humain pr\u00e9pare ses d\u00e9fenses. C\u2019est le principe du vaccin\u00a0: on injecte un virus \u00e0 petites doses dans le corps et celui-ci pr\u00e9pare des anticorps pour se d\u00e9fendre dans le futur. C\u2019est la m\u00eame chose pour les \u00e9motions. La peur, le doute et la peine sont essentiels \u00e0 notre \u00e9volution. L\u2019\u00eatre humain a besoin d\u2019acqu\u00e9rir ses moyens de d\u00e9fense.<\/p>\n

Lorsque les parents surprot\u00e8gent leurs enfants, sans le vouloir, ils leur font autant de tort que de bien en les emp\u00eachant de se pr\u00e9parer aux coups durs que la vie va leur faire encaisser. Je sais, vous \u00eates en train de vous dire\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Il est bien n\u00e9gatif, tout d’un coup\u00a0\u00bb. Je suis tr\u00e8s conscient que la vie est compos\u00e9e de hauts et de bas, c\u2019est juste qu\u2019il ne faut pas demeurer dans les bas.<\/p>\n

Il y a quelques semaines, lors d\u2019une rencontre fortuite dans un magasin, un jeune p\u00e8re de famille (un ami d\u2019enfance de mes enfants) m\u2019a racont\u00e9 avec plaisir que son fils d\u2019un an commence \u00e0 avoir des bleus partout parce qu\u2019il apprend \u00e0 marcher. Il m\u2019a dit\u00a0avec fiert\u00e9\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0C\u2019est dr\u00f4le de le voir aller, il se l\u00e8ve les deux bras dans les airs et il se met \u00e0 marcher comme un gars ivre et paf, il s\u2019\u00e9crase sur le plancher\u00a0\u00bb. Lui, il en riait, alors que sa conjointe \u00e9tait apeur\u00e9e de la situation. \u00ab\u00a0J\u2019ai assez peur qu\u2019il se fasse mal\u00a0\u00bb, disait-elle. Et lui de r\u00e9torquer\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Ce n\u2019est pas grave, il va apprendre\u00a0!\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n

Quelle belle le\u00e7on\u00a0! Il va apprendre. Si la vie avait voulu que nous ne nous fassions pas mal, elle n\u2019aurait pas invent\u00e9 les\u00a0“bleus” et le ph\u00e9nom\u00e8ne de cicatrisation. Nous commencerions \u00e0 marcher tout d\u2019un coup sans tomber. Mais, ce n\u2019est pas le cas, nous devons tomber et nous relever, c\u2019est un processus naturel.<\/p>\n

Si vous \u00eates parents, votre r\u00f4le n\u2019est pas d\u2019emp\u00eacher vos enfants de se faire mal (mentalement et physiquement), mais de les aider \u00e0 panser leurs blessures lorsqu\u2019ils en ont. C’est le fameux\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Becquer bobo\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n

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Lorsque j\u2019\u00e9tais enfant, il m\u2019est arriv\u00e9 plus d\u2019une fois de m\u2019\u00e9corcher le genou en tombant dans la cour de mon ami. Je me souviens particuli\u00e8rement d\u2019une fois o\u00f9 la blessure \u00e9tait vraiment profonde et saignait beaucoup. J\u2019\u00e9tais all\u00e9 voir ma m\u00e8re en pleurant. Qu\u2019a-t-elle fait? Sans aucune panique, elle a rinc\u00e9 la plaie, l\u2019a badigeonn\u00e9e… Read More »Besoin de cicatrices<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":8172,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[177],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11866","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-chronique-motivation-en"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nBesoin de cicatrices - Formax - \u00c9quipe de conf\u00e9renciers professionnels Canada<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"If you're a parent, your role is not to prevent your children from hurting themselves, but to help them heal their wounds and scars.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/formax.qc.ca\/en\/besoin-de-cicatrices\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Besoin de cicatrices\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"If you're a parent, your role is not to prevent your children from hurting themselves, but to help them heal their wounds and scars.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/formax.qc.ca\/en\/besoin-de-cicatrices\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Formax - 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